How do we train ourselves to look for the good? In neuroscience there is a concept called confirmation bias. It means what we believe is what we see. When we approach a situation with a preconceived notion of what it might, or should be, then we are blinded to the fullest potential and truth of what it really is.There is a classic line that says, ‘when a pickpocket sees a saint, all he sees are the pockets’. If we see others as a threat, that's how we will act and th